The reason I feel so strongly about this comes from one Friday night, a few months after my divorce, and long before I started this singles organization, I found myself wanting to get dressed up and go out on a Friday night, but all of my girlfriends were busy. I envisioned people looking over at me – judging me: is she Desperate? We quickly jump into new romantic relationship simply because our self-perception is about what society thinks of us being alone. Being single and learning how to go out alone, improves your mental well being to greater heights.
Once a Speed Dating event begins, you will be so busy you won’t even have time to notice you are alone! Visions of me sitting alone and awkwardly at a bar sprung to my imagination. And it is the thirst of our co-dependence and not allowing ourselves to be alone, is what actually limits us from making new friends.It makes you look like you are not open to conversations.You will be amazed at how many more great people you will meet by going alone, than you would have otherwise met if you were busy chatting it up with a friend. Everyone at the events share the same goal as yours, they desire to be in a fulfilling relationship.Improve yourself by being comfortable with yourself at all costs. When I was going through my divorce, I too was wondering where I can go to have fun that doesn’t involve a bar every time ’cause that scene can get old real fast.When I created , I particularly wanted to make sure, I would hold my events in Restaurants (not pubs) and also provide alternative places to meet that was not Alcohol focused, so it won’t feel like a bar singles scene.