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As in the first warning sign calling names is about control and humiliation.We all have dealt with nicknames and insults, even among our friends.Emotional abuse can happen to any one and it may eventually escalate to physical abuse if it isn’t stopped. Abusers know that they can control you emotionally because no one wants to admit that someone else has treated them so poorly. Simply text “Love Is” to 77054 for confidential help. I’m also in a relationship for 2 and a half years now he also colls me names n I’m emotional about that always. I’m not afraid to loss him cause hes the one who’s making me loose the love I have for hom Hi. I met this guy, he is a lawyer, handsome, successful and a smart man, as soon as I met him, we started dating, 10 months later, we decided to get married, he was the perfect guy, everybody loved him, he promised me the moon, the stars and the sun.If you determine that these warning signs are part of your relationship, remember: you are not alone. BAd MISTAKE, once we got married he showed me his real face, he was a compulsive lier, everything he said was a lie, he came from an abusive family, where his father hit his mom and she thought it was normal and that god was going to punish him for that.This is a common discussion point in the ‘sphere, one I’ve even written about and one beaten to death if you open your eyes.M3 did a most powerful post on this last year with his Confessions of a Reformed Incel (involuntary celibacy .Many abusers will humiliate or embarrass their partners in public as a method of control to “prove” that only the abuser can love them.A victim of emotional abuse may start to blame themselves for the abuser’s behavior and come to believe what the abuser says.
Names, particularly if they are hurled at you by someone who claims to love you, can be terribly painful.You might be a nerd, a jock, a popular and be proud about it.Having others call you names might roll right off you.If people you don’t really care about call you names, it may not be as upsetting.If that person is your boyfriend or girlfriend it becomes a whole different story.