How to message a girl on a dating site
"Also you can't equate how a woman online responds to how your average guy would. Dudes rarely ever do so there's less nonsense to sift through for a guy. Girls get a lot more shit messages, though, so if yours doesn't hold her interest or show that you actually took an interest in her profile, it'll get deleted.
And it is forced if you're only going "Hey we both like kayaking".
" do you think she be really excited to get to know him?
Edit: To those who have pointed out the different dynamics of men and women on dating sites, I absolutely agree that is the reality of the situation.
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I honestly got less of a response than my "Hey, how are you? Thank god for OKC filtering otherwise my inbox would be full to bursting with 40-year-old men asking me to do the sex. Something that shows I've read the profile, how that relates to me, compliment him, and then I'll ask a question relating to those things in his profile so that we can get a conversation started. Honestly, I wasn't a huge fan of online dating but I did have a profile for a few months. I only wish I had done it sooner, I had seen him around on the dating website we were both on before, but I was just so sure that he wouldn't message me back that I let it get to me.Lastly there are a plethora of women I've seen on Ok C who specifically say in their profile; "don't message me if you're just interested in sex" or "don't just comment on my looks".They're going to assume certain things about a guy messaging them and opening with physical appearance instead of personality, so why wouldn't a guy assume certain things about a girl who opens the same way? To be blunt it might depend on how often the guy got messaged but I don't reply to people who message something bland like "how was your weekend? I will however read their profile and will likely reply with a message of my own if they seem interesting.