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Here again, I posit that at least some of women's frustration in modern dating can be explained through a double-bind.

Essentially then, some women choose to "attach" to men who are cooperative, agreeable, supportive, and often take their lead in areas the woman finds important.

Attachment, however, can often be more of a conscious choice.

It is possible to "decide" who to share a home with, how to divide parental duties, and pick someone particular based on safety criteria.

Women then may gravitate towards a culturally prescribed "nice guy," only to find that they become bored, their libido wanes, and their eyes wander back to "jerks." Either way, they find the relationships largely frustrating and unsatisfying.

Beyond highlighting this double-bind for all, I will save the "what men can do" for another time.

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